There are millions stories on how to be successful. There are tons of articles on how to be productive, passionate about what you doing. But hardly ever I can find anything on how to elevate self confidence. Because I can’t imagine any success story without one. So here are 10 easy rules that will help you to build even taller self-esteem in order to be successful in any desirable way!
1) Get your best image possibleDoesn’t matter whether it’s holidays or boring business week – you should look your best at all times! Put on your favourite shirt, shoes or belt that were hidden in your wardrobe for ages. Every day worth celebration! So why should you look as if party of life is yet to come? It’s been around you all along. Look and feel your best!
2) Stop obsessing about your shortcomings.
Stop paying attention to your shortcomings in a negative manner. Just concentrate on those special features that make you stand out from the crowd! Than think about how can you develop skills you never tried to explore yet. The less you think about shortcomings, the better you’ll feel.
Stop paying attention to your shortcomings in a negative manner. Just concentrate on those special features that make you stand out from the crowd! Than think about how can you develop skills you never tried to explore yet. The less you think about shortcomings, the better you’ll feel.
3) Stop parading your weaknesses.You know better than I do, that people pay attention to things only if you desperately want them to. Instead of wasting your time on promoting failure stories among your friends you should build a great ones and keep moving on.
4) Stop criticizingAs simple as the mirror rule. Train your brain to see more positive things, people and situations around you without an attempt to criticize any of that.
5) Learn how to listenYou know, there is a good reason that we have 2 ears and only 1 mouth. Think about it. In order to build new conversations and turn them into success try speak less and listen more what people have to share with you. Everybody love to be heard.
6) Be sincereIf you want to win new friends and keep those people in your life – be sincere. If your friend just shared a story on how he spent his time in Australia, or Brazil, or any other place in the world – tell your friend what you truly think of that experience. Only sincerity opens doors and welcoming new people into your life.
7) Be curious
Be curious about everything that’s taking place around you. Make a habit to learn something new everyday and feel confident about it.
Be curious about everything that’s taking place around you. Make a habit to learn something new everyday and feel confident about it.
8) NO alcoholAlcohol will not give you an answer, it will make you forget the question. But seriously speaking, if you want to build a true self confidence – alcohol isn’t an option for you.
9) Leave your “shy” in the closetShy people make others uncomfortable and even agressive sometimes. Get out there! be open, positive and kind!
10) The only risk in life…The only risk in life to take no risk at all.
By Lesya
Source: http://havingtime.com/
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